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Saving marriage a matter of economics, not 'values'
Marriage has been in the news lately for its scarcity. More than half of all women in our country are now sans spouse. It's enough to make a wedding planner sob into her taffeta. This slow demise of marriage - down nearly 50 percent since 1970 - results from several trends. Americans are waiting longer to get hitched, are living together without benefit of marriage and, of course, are divorcing at a high rate. This is old news. Drill a bit deeper in the marriage statistics, and you'll unearth a much more remarkable fact: Better off couples are half as likely to divorce. Families with annual incomes over $50,000 have a 31 percent chance of divorce after 15 years, according to a study by the National Marriage Project at Rutgers University, whereas families with incomes below $25,000 have a 65 percent chance. Income predicts divorce with great accuracy. The numbers suggest that a key variable in family stability is less cultural or sociological - less about personal values - than about basic economics. It is hard to get along when you can't get by. There are plenty of stresses that buffet a marriage, but facing more bills than income has to be among the most insidious. Few things are as humiliating and oppressive as working full time yet knowing there is no way your paycheck will provide for your family. It is not a feeling that working Americans in the 21st
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century should be subject to, yet we increasingly are. The Bush administration has focused on marriage as an anti-poverty program, with the government directing hundreds of millions of dollars in tax money to help marriages flourish. I agree that healthy marriages should be encouraged. Married couples have higher incomes through their combined efforts, generally provide a better environment to raise children, and bring wider social stability. But just teaching people conflict resolution and relationship skills is not addressing the elephant in the room. You want healthy marriages? Then start reversing the growing income inequality and the you're-on-your-own economy that America has become. You want healthy marriages? Then start with healthy people and make sure that no American is without affordable health care and no employee has to lose a day's pay when sick. San Francisco is the first city in the country to require employers to provide paid sick leave, and you would think it was demanding gold-plated toilet seats at the loading dock bathroom. The travesty here isn't old liberal San Francisco bilking business owners. It is that any employer today can actually get away with not providing their staff accrued sick pay. Are they kidding? President Bush's idea to reduce the uninsured is a tax deduction for the purchase of private health insurance, a plan that would do virtually nothing for the lower income uninsured. The president should get real. Shoring up families means universal health care. You want healthy marriages? You want things to look more like the venerable 1950s when people seemed calmer and more secure about their lives? Then return to defined benefit pensions. Today only about 21 percent of workers in the private sector enjoy this peace of mind. Instead, we have shifted the risk of retirement onto workers' shoulders. If you don't invest wisely in your 401(k) or if you didn't put enough of your income aside or if you outlive your nest egg, well, thems the breaks. If Bush had his way, even Social Security would lose its entitlement status and become an investment program fraught with personal risk. You want healthy marriages? Then a $2-per-hour increase in the minimum wage won't cut it. We should figure out what constitutes a living wage and make that the floor. In England the minimum wage is $1,800 per month compared to our $824 for full-time work. The idea across the pond is that if an employer wants to monopolize the working time of an employee, then that employee should be paid enough for a reasonable existence. Marriages only have a chance when the people who are in them have a chance. The statistics couldn't be clearer: If the workplace provides men and women dignity and a semblance of economic security, that will translate into stability within the family. If the Bush administration really wants to gird the institution of marriage then it should forget about sermons and lectures on personal virtue (the government's marriage programs are largely operated by faith-based institutions). Red states, which tend to be more avidly religious, have higher divorce rates than blue states. Whereas in low-divorce blue states, workers tend to have higher incomes. It's not a matter of values, it's a matter of value for one's labor. Only by demanding that workers receive decent wages and benefits and only by becoming a more generous society will the decline of marriage substantially slow. Everything else is just a diversion.
I chose this article because I think it's interesting that the author points out that the divorce rate is higher for lower-income families. I think the solutions she offers to getting more people married are interesting, so I'm going to go through and critique them, in an economic way of course:
You want healthy marriages? Then start reversing the growing incomeThe growing income inequality I believe the author is referring to is the fact that there are rich people, and there are poor people. It's sad, of course, that some people are ridiculously rich while some people are ridiculously poor, but it's always been that way--and it always will be. In Wheelan's book (I don't have it with me right now, but I remember VERY CLEARLY) he goes through many different techniques on how we've tried to make the rich poorer and the poor richer--and the money never ends up with the poor. It never really works. It's just the way things are in our market system. There will always be unemployment.
inequality and the you're-on-your-own economy that America has become.
Then start with healthy people and make sure that no American is without
affordable health care and no employee has to lose a day's pay when sick.
So, if I get this right, the author is saying that the reason there are so many low income people (resulting in a higher divorce rate among lower-income couples) is because companies don't pay for sick days. An externality for companies paying for sick days is this: say you are never sick. You're always at work on time. Then Lucy is never there. Lucy's always sick. Not only do you possibly have to do extra work to make up for Lucy (opportunity cost: the work you're supposed to be doing), but the company has to pay wages for someone who isn't present. The company is poorer. They may dock some of your pay. So, basically, people who show up every day may end up working harder for less money, and people who are sick end up working less for more money. Hmm.
You want healthy marriages? Then a $2-per-hour increase in the minimum wage
won't cut it. We should figure out what constitutes a living wage and make that
the floor. In England the minimum wage is $1,800 per month
compared to our $824 for full-time work. The idea across the pond is that if an
employer wants to monopolize the working time of an employee, then that employee should be paid enough for a reasonable existence.
Increasing the minimum wage that dramatically (the author is suggesting we more than DOUBLE the minimum wage per month) means everyone has more money. So far, so good. But then the company who makes gum has to pay their employees more, so to compensate, they raise the price of their gum from $1 to $2. Goods cost more. It works basically like inflation. I don't like it.
If the Bush administration really wants to gird the institution of marriage
then it should forget about sermons and lectures on personal virtue (the
government's marriage programs are largely operated by faith-based
institutions).
I agree that the Bush administration probably shouldn't focus so much on faith to save the country's marriages, but instead, they should probably work on tax cuts for those in marriages--especially for lower-income families. They could set up a law saying that couples with a combined income of less than $25,000 gets a certain percentage of tax cuts.
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6 comments:
Hey Beth!
Nice article, but i strongly disagree with the author on the wage increase. I really dont think a wage increase will make a healthy marriage! I dont care how much money my husband makes, if i cant get along with him/love him then he's history. Money makes the world go round, but it definatly doesnt always make a happy marriage.
i love lamp....
i don't have the energy to sound as smart as ashley
Interesting article, Beth!
Raising minimum wage is a touchy subject - because it would be more than those making min wage that would be affected. If you worked somewhere for 10 years and just now made $9 an hour, and the min wage went to $10/hour, where would that leave you? 10 years experience and making the same (because they'd have to bump you up) as the person hired off the street.
And then, of course, as you mention - the increase in prices. Causing inflation. Causing layoffs...and on and on.
Income inequality is one of the things we'll be looking at in unit 4. This is a good article for that! Interesting that he claims an increase in the min wage would make marriages healthier. I think it's a coincidence - it's like saying that I have muscles, and Arnold Schwarzenegger has muscles, so I must be Arnold Schwarzeneggar...hmm...
while i am unconvinced that the correlation between income and divorce rates is entirely accurate, it does make sense to me to a certain extent. in a household with more income, there are fewer worries about where the next meal is coming from, how to pay for christmas presents for timmy, or how to pay the electric bill. reducing day-to-day stress is obviously beneficial to relationships. stress causes people to be cranky, not conducive to a healthy marriage. so to a point i understand how increasing wages would increase the likelihood that people will remain married. at the same time, a rise in the minimum wage will lead to mass layoffs, leading to much reduced income for many families, increasing their stress, and helping to deteriorate their marriages. so i'm not sure how much a wage hike would actually help and how much it would hurt.
I read this same article, I liked it
Beth--I agree with Ashley, Income is a huge factor in success but i dont believe that it defines marriage. Some familes struggle their whole lives...never quite making enough moeny to pay all the bills, however they are still happily married. I do agree with you however that the Bush administration should not be promoteing Faith. You know me well enough as a person and you know what i believe, but i dont think that BUsh should be shoving Faith down peoples throats. In summation i disgaree mostly with the article but she does make some striking points.
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